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Barbells 101: A Lesson in Specialty Bars

Anyone who has ventured into the Strength Lab for a training session has seen bars of all shapes and sizes on the racks or stacked in the bar holders. Most are covered in colored tape too. At first glance it seems like overkill, but there is a method to our madness. I want to dig into the what and why of these bars and how you can incorporate them into your own training.

 

Specialty bars, for the most part, were designed with two purposes in mind:

 

1) Maintaining healthy joints while allowing the lifter to continue to train as they normally would.

 

2) Putting the lifter at a mechanical disadvantage to force the body to adapt and ultimately make progress.

 

There are specialty bars for the squat, bench and deadlift but they all have crossover uses as well. So let’s start with the specialty bars designed for upper body use. In the Strength Lab, they are all designated by RED tape (our all-purpose bars use blue tape for reference).

 

 

#1 The most specific of all is the COMPETITION BENCH BAR.

 

Uses: Benching and that’s all folks.

 

Weight: 55lbs.

 

It is thicker than an all-purpose bar to prevent ‘bar whip’ during heavy bench attempts. And the collars are longer so you can load as many plates as your little heart desires (or body can handle). You are certainly welcome to use a blue all-purpose bar to bench, but if you are going to a competition that will be using this bar on the platform, it’s nice to be prepared ahead of time for the thicker diameter.

 

 

#2 Up next is the FATBAR.

 

Uses: Benching, triceps assistance movements, bicep curls

 

Weight: 55lbs.

 

The purpose of the fatbar is simple and effective- it takes pressure off of your joints, mainly the wrist and elbow, by reducing the torque you’re able to generate at the joint.  A less “sciencey” summary- use this bar if your shoulders/elbows/wrists hurt. The other advantage to this bar is that it puts more of an emphasis on your triceps. So if your bench progress is stalling, this can be a nice curve ball to throw at your body.

 

Another favorite use for this bar- BICEP CURLS! In the same way that it forces your triceps to work harder in the bench, it will over emphasize bicep activation by reducing the work that your forearms can do during the movement.

 

 

#3 is where is starts to get a little funky- FOOTBALL BENCH BAR.

Uses: benching, rows, curls

 

Weight: 45lbs.

 

This is the ultimate shoulder saver. The angle of the handles puts your shoulder in a more natural pressing position. If you’ve taken our #powerful classes, you know we preach elbow position in the bench to help mitigate shoulder discomfort. Well, this bar makes that process dummy-proof.

 

When using it for a row, it can help stop the bicep from taking over the motion and allow you to target your back as intended.

 

When using it for curls, it allows you to mimic a hammer curl (typically done with a dumbbell) which is actually the healthiest version of a bicep curl because it puts your tendons in the safest position possible. 

 

 

#4 Last but not least, the SWISS PRESS BAR.

Uses: benching, triceps assistance movements, rows, overhead press

 

Weight: 33lbs.

 

To me it’s just the ugly step sister to the football bar, but that’s really just a bad opinion on my part. I’m obviously biased but don’t let my opinion sway you- try it for yourself.

 

I don’t like it for benching anything heavy (heavy being relative) because the thin handles make it tough to stabilize.  However, it is the BEST BAR for targeting your triceps because it puts your wrists in a neutral position, ultimately taking most of the pec and front delt out of the press.

 

Similar to the football bar, this is a great bar for rows because it limits the bicep’s ability to take over the movement.

 

And for an overhead press movement, this is another shoulder saver. In an overhead position, the neutral grip makes the press extremely safe and stable for the shoulder.

I recognize that it’s a lot to remember. I get asked daily what each bar weighs and what it can be used for. Please, keep asking! But I hope this serves as a quick guide to at least give some insight into how you can incorporate these tools into your own training.

#treatyoself

 

It’s time for a health check up…and we’ll start with the basics.

– What are you drinking right now- coffee, tea, energy drink?

  • How much sleep did you get last night- the standard six or seven hours or maybe as little four?
  • How much have you eaten today? Or have you eaten today? Did you make your breakfast or was it fast-food grab and go kind of morning?

 

We realize that we’re borderline beating a dead horse with this one, but self care is EVERYTHING.  I don’t think our staff at UF can stress enough the importance of rest and recovery. We seem to preach it constantly. Some of our other coaches have already shared their self-care stories, and unfortunately (or fortunately), I had my wakeup call last week.

 

After a regularly scheduled bench session, I started to feel slightly nauseous. This is uncommon for me, so I was a little bit nervous to say the least. I decided to go home early considering that with each burp I was leaning toward the trash can.

 

I’ll save you the rest of the details, but I drove myself to the ER around 5 am. The doctor did a few blood tests and sure enough, I had light case of rhabdomyolysis.If you’re familiar with rhabdomyolysis, you know that this condition can be gravely dangerous. As I’m sure many of you are not familiar, in simple terms, it is when your muscles release a tremendous amount of waste product that puts damage on your body, specifically your kidneys. If this condition is severe enough it can lead to kidney failure. Luckily, my Exercise Physiology degree came in handy – we discussed the symptoms in class so I had an idea of what might be happening. By getting myself to the ER as quickly as possible, we caught it early before any more serious symptoms set in.

 

The point of this article is not to talk about how to prevent rhabdomyolysis. And I’ll add this right now: I DID NOT GET RHABDOMYOLYSIS DUE TO ANYTHING I DID IN THE GYM. I subjected myself to this by not taking my recovery seriously. This article is about how we all need to take care of ourselves before something like this happens to you – a serious medical condition that could have been entirely preventable with rest.

 

When it comes to giving your body rest there are three key components to focus on: (1) sleep, (2) hydration, and (3) nutrition. We’ll call the them the “big three.” Whenever I have a client that says they don’t feel well, we can usually trace it back to Big Three. I know as well as you do that at certain times in our lives these will be sacrificed for any number of things- that project at work or your term paper for school. This isn’t optimal for obvious reasons, but what needs to happen after you’ve sacrificed your health for a commitment is a catch up period after you’ve over extended yourself. My theory is that rest and work need to be a 2:1 ratio: that extra hour you pushed yourself for work, school, or training needs to be followed by two hours of dedicated recovery time.

 

I can understand if you’re feeling skeptical, but consider my situation. When you are in the gym working hard on those giant biceps, you are technically breaking down muscle fibers. Nothing is being built. When are we actually building muscle then? The hard to swallow answer: when you eat, sleep and hydrate. These three things need to be taken care of to fully to reach your training goals, whether that be the biggest biceps in the gym, your first challenging hike, or getting through a rough Cardio Lab class.

 

I know you are dying to know what I did to wreck my body. Let’s just say I was not taking care of any of the main three. They say a smart man learns from his mistakes, but a wise man learns from the mistakes of others…I want all of you to learn from my mistakes. To do that, I want each of you to pick one action to take this week that means you’re taking better care of your recovery: sleep, hydration, and nutrition. Maybe that looks like skipping that extra re-run of Park and Rec to get an extra 30 minutes of sleep, or just getting a 12oz cold brew coffee instead of the 24oz, or cutting your workout in half because you realized that the only thing you ate that day was half of a stale bagel you scrounged up in the break room (that you washed down with a liter of coffee, naturally).

 

Lastly, I know a lot of you are thinking “I ain’t no wuss” – you’re stronger than this, you can’t get something like rhabdo. We are living in a culture where it is “badass” to push yourself to a breaking point. Let me tell you what is not badass. Laying in the ER on your second bag of IV fluid realizing that you won’t be able to compete in the powerlifting meet you’d been preparing for over the past three months. Nobody likes set backs and I don’t want that for any of you. So go ahead take that nap, drink all the water, and make your lunch count. Take care UF’ers.

Union Fitness 101: How to use the Ski Erg

Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock, you’ve probably noticed the new equipment in the Cardio Lab by now. If you’ve been lucky enough to participate in one of our HIIT, Grit, or Hybrid Flow classes, you’re most likely super familiar with the ski erg. It’s one of our favorite pieces of cardio equipment here at UF. Most traditional cardio equipment (think treadmills, bikes & ellipticals) focus on the lower body. Although you might end up developing a love/hate relationship with this device, it is by far one of the most efficient pieces of equipment to work the upper body.

 

We know just looking at the ski erg can be quite intimidating for newbies so we put together a how-to guide for those looking to add some upper body cardio into their routines.

 

Set-up/Technique:
 

There are two main techniques for the arms: Straight up and down (think ski poles) or Circles (think butterfly stroke).

There are two main techniques for the legs: Hip Hinge (think fatbell swing) or Squat (think more knee bend).

You can mix & match your styles and techniques throughout your workout!

Common Mistakes:
 

Back rounding

Avoid this mistake by keeping your back as flat or neutral as possible. It helps to think about keeping your shoulders back or squeezing your shoulder blades together.

Knees locked out

Avoid this mistake by always keep a slight or soft bend in the knees.

Not finishing the pull

Avoid this mistake by making sure you always finish your arm extension.

 

Damper Setting:
 

The damper is the numbered lever on the side of the fan cage, from 1-10 (same as the row machines!) It controls how much air flows into the cage with each pull. Higher damper settings allow more air into the fan cage, but more air means it takes more work to accelerate the pull. Simply put: the lower the setting, the easier the pulls feel and vice versa.

 

However, it’s easy to confuse the damper setting with the intensity level of your workout. A higher damper setting does not necessarily mean a harder workout. The intensity level is independent of the damper and is completely dependent on you. It depends solely on how much you choose to use your core, legs and arms to move the handles. The harder you pull, the more resistance you feel!

 

Monitor:
 

How to turn the machine on:
As soon as you start your first pull, the machine will automatically turn on and start calculating.

 

How to change the units of measure:
We commonly use calories or meters to calculate or measure workouts in classes. To change the units on your screen, follow the video instructions below.

That’s just about all there is to it! The best way to learn is really to give it a try yourself, so hop in on a Cardio Lab class ASAP.

Yoga for Lifters

When you’re in love with a barbell, we know it can be difficult to ditch it in exchange for a yoga mat. It feels a little bit like cheating on your one true love—there are feelings of guilt, fear, anxiety and uncertainty.  We get it! There’s nothing quite like crushing a new PR with the love of your life or a rep PR in the Strength Lab.  Adrenaline is rushing, the music is bumping and the blood is pumping hard. It’s a beautiful feeling.  Just like that feeling of cold hard steel in your hands, covered in a mix of chalk and sweat, nothing can quite compare.  But, honestly, the benefits of yoga for lifters can be just as sweet and satisfying:

 

Less injuries

We see it all the time: Things are going great and one day, BAM! You’re sidelined with an injury. Yoga can keep you in the lifting game longer by preventing injuries and rehabbing the nagging injuries that keep you from the big numbers.

 

Learn how to breathe better

Breath control is number one in lifting (and in life, let’s be honest)! Learning how to brace properly is imperative for lifting safely and effectively.  A yoga practice gives you the chance to learn and implement proper breath control into your lifting routine.

 

More mobility

Setting up for your lifts should not be comfortable, if you’re doing it right.  But it shouldn’t be causing you pain either.  Getting into a proper set up for your deadlift, back squat, or bench press takes a lot of mobility in a lot of places.  While a steady yoga practice might not be comfortable, the mobility gains will be worth it!

 

All of these things (and so much more!) translate into better lifts, bigger weights and a better overall lifter. But if you’re not quite convinced yet, maybe two of our favorite powerlifters here at Union Fitness can convince you to try out some yoga poses guaranteed to improve your lifting performance and progress.  Casey and Ryan kicked off their lifting shoes and wraps to venture into the yoga studio for a little game of “Monkey See, Monkey Do”.

Crescent Lunge

Benefits: Stretches the psoas, quads and hamstrings. Strengthens the front leg and alleviates tightness in the hip flexors.

 

 

Half Pigeon

Benefits: Stretches the glutes, hips and psoas.  Increased hip mobility.

 

 

Supine Spinal Twist

Benefits: Stretches and releases the back muscles, opens shoulders and realigns spine.

 

 

Buddha Squat

Benefits: Stretches hips, ankles, groin and Achilles. Provides spinal stabilization.

 

RPR- Reflexive Performance Reset

 

About a month ago, Casey, Lindsey and I attended a clinic in Columbus on Reflexive Performance Reset (or RPR): a system meant to help increase performance and decrease unnecessary injuries during sports and training using a variety of “wake-up drills” for your nervous system. Sounds great right? To be honest, after a little research, I was hesitant: when you watch video of the drills being performed, it seems like nothing short of voodoo. You’ll see people rubbing the back of their head, digging thumbs into their stomach, and karate chopping their inner thighs (so if you see Casey scratching his rib cage in the corner a little more aggressively than usual, that’s a wake up drill).

 

The system was designed, in part, by JL Holdsworth. JL is a long time member of EliteFTS and has been one of Casey’s friends and mentors over the last five years. JL was a world powerlifting champion and is currently running two gyms in Columbus OH (The Spot Athletics). So if anyone knows about performance AND stress, it’s him. Taken from the RPR website: You are under constant stress, which is interpreted as survival mode by your body. When in survival mode your body utilizes harmful compensation patterns which can lead to injury.  RPR® resets the body out of survival mode and into performance mode.

 

The guys behind RPR have been at this long enough to understand the initial skepticism, so we started the training with a simple anti-rotational test which they designed as buy-in for new RPR users. Everyone in the seminar was paired up with someone of a similar strength/build and we were instructed to try to knock our partner off balance by rotating one shoulder towards us while pushing the other away. This might sound easy, but even with the little resistance that my partner applied, I wasn’t able to keep the starting position (and I like to think I’m pretty strong). My first thought was that my core wasn’t strong enough: the first thing I am doing when I get home is planks every day. But what happened next confused me as my partner rubbed the muscles along my spine (erectors to be scientific) and then pounded on them with the end of his palm, like an aggressive, angry massage (percussion in RPR terms). This was my first experience with a wake-up drill. After this drill, we retested and I was able to resist my partner even after he applied more resistance. Needless to say, I was sold.

 

Through the rest of the seminar we learned more of these wake-up drills, moving from a group of drills meant for your core and out to more specific muscle groups and body parts. First we would learn the basics of the drill, then we would take a pre-drill measurement of performance, then we would execute the drill and finally, do a retest of our performance. Each and every time, my performance increased. Now the test that really hooked me was based on hip flexion. I have always had poor hip flexion, which I assumed was due to my glutes not activating. During our RPR training, I learned a more accurate way to think about my problem: my glutes were firing, but the timing in which my glutes fired was out of whack. This poor timing of my glutes firing actually lead to a serious non-contact injury. My hip flexion went from about 2 inches off the ground to about 4-5 inches off the ground. To be honest, my glute almost cramped since my body was not used to having to fire that much! Even though these still feel a little like voodoo, I can’t deny that the drills work.

 

 

While I don’t know every detail of the science behind RPR, I’ll lay out some of what I do know. RPR is designed to switch the timing in which muscles activate during certain exercises. This is the case when you are in hip extension, which is our most basic and most important movement pattern. You need to extend your hips every time you take a step or stand up from a chair. If you’re doing hip extension incorrectly, you’re creating poor motor patterns that will follow you into the gym. And if you do things incorrectly for long enough, you’ll end up with some severe dysfunction in the later stages of life. The gist of it is that the glutes should be the first muscle group to fire when we extend our hips, but unfortunately for many people, including me, that’s not the case. When the glutes don’t fire first, either our hamstrings or our contralateral quadratus lumborum (QL) deep in our abs, need to take over. Our body will always find a way to compensate for poor muscle firing, but eventually that can cause injury and subpar performance. The wake up drills we learned are intense enough that they cause a forceful reset (hence the name) of our nervous system, allowing us to retrain the body to fire the right muscles in the correct order.

 

Some of you may have noticed a new addition to our #powerful warm-ups: belly breathing or superman breaths. This is the most fundamental wake up drill used in RPR, and conveniently one of the easiest for us to implement. Most of us are “chest breathers,” meaning that we use the muscles around their upper chest to help inhale. This is not the most efficient way to breathe, and is often caused by chronic stress throughout our lives. When it comes down to it, your body can’t tell the difference between running from a lion and having a fight with your significant other – the stress reaction is the same. The belly breathing wake up drill helps reset our diaphragm to perform more deep breaths, which calm us down, help us focus on the task at hand, bring more oxygen into our bodies, and ultimately perform better. Of course we’re already having you do them!

 

We will be implementing even more of these drills in our warm-ups soon. We’re excited to get the rest of our staff together for a big RPR training this upcoming weekend! If you’re interested in how these drills can better improve your performance and overall daily activities in your life, come check out our #powerful class. We’ll get you breathing right and lifting heavy.

State of the Union, Fitness

 

 

We’re going to try something a little different with one of our blogs each month moving forward. You’re going to hear straight from me about what I see and hear every day in our gym. My goal is to make it easily digestible and worth your time. If you find that it is, tell us. If you find that it’s garbage, tell us. We’re just like you- trying to improve at everything we do.

 

 

Our staff at UF has done a tremendous job putting our blogs together to get information across to our members each month. Most of it is what we preach daily to you all. Some of it was fun. Starting in February we went from 8-12 blog posts per month down to one per week. Like we preach in training- quality over quantity. So, if there are things you’re interested in learning more about, email us and we’ll write you your own blog post.

 

 

To keep this coherent, I’m going to use our values at UF to organize this information. That may change over time, but I think this is a great way to start. If you’re interested in reading more about those, click here: https://unionfitness.com/about/

 

 

UF values- EPIC: Education—Passion—Integrity—Community

 

 

Education

Earlier this month our staff took a trip to Columbus for an RPR clinic (Reflexive Performance Reset). Admittedly, I went for selfish reasons. I’m trying to fix my hips because my training has been suffering as a result of some dysfunction. However, my staff jumped at the opportunity to go (spending their own time and money) to help better serve our members with their performance and recovery. The basis of RPR is to use very simple techniques to reset your nervous system, allowing your muscles to do what they were intended to do. Traditional methods- massage and Active Release Therapy (ART) and rehab are all great tools, but they’re focus is limited to the muscle. RPR focuses on the nervous system, which controls the muscle.

 

 

One common application is back pain. We live in a world that our bodies are not designed for (sitting all day, eyes glued to phones or computers, etc). It causes bad compensation patterns including tight hip flexors and tight psoas.  So when you walk in to train, your nervous system keeps your psoas and hip flexors tight because that’s what you’ve taught it to do. I can explain why that leads to back pain but the point is moot because you have back pain and you don’t care why, you just want to fix it. So if you’re seeing some new warm ups in class, it’s a result of this clinic. If you have any questions, please consult one of our coaches.

 

 

Google “psoas” and “hip flexor” for reference.

Read more about RPR here: https://www.reflexiveperformance.com/about/

 

 

Passion

I’m going to try to make this as inclusive as possible, but understand I’m only one set of eyes. And I don’t get to see everyone in the gym each week let alone every day. With that being said, I want to take a moment to acknowledge Piyush Gupta for his commitment and passion in training. He comes in every day and busts his ass, but more importantly, he sticks to his goals outside of the gym. He and I have worked together over the last few months to tailor his training and nutrition. He’s responded really well already adding a few pounds of muscle in such a short time period. He understands that this is a process and there are no short cuts and for that I admire his work ethic. So thank you, Piyush, for you passion.

 

 

Integrity

There are two definitions of integrity. (1) the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles and (2) the state of being whole and undivided. Both apply to Union Fitness. We try to uphold honesty and integrity through our everyday interactions with our members. You and your experiences in our facility #1 and #2 priorities for us. Without you, there’s no us. Which leads me to the second definition- wholeness or oneness. I want to take a moment to publicly commend Coach Ali and Coach Lindsey. They’ve both poured themselves into coaching over the last year, but specifically empowering the women of Union Fitness. They’ve created a wholeness in our community that welcomes women of all backgrounds and ability levels. Through their hard work and our members’ trust, they’ve strengthened the integrity of our community at Union Fitness.

 

 

Community

Last but not least, I think this might be my favorite part of Union Fitness. So let me publicly thank you all for your contributions to our community. This is the first facility that I’ve managed, but I’ve been to every size and style gym across Pittsburgh, Columbus, and Austin. Very rarely do I have to stop someone from doing something dangerous or disruptive. More often than not I see members in both the Fitness Center and Strength Lab supporting each other and that means the world to me. It’s hard enough to get to the gym some days. Having a friend, training partner, coach, or even an acquaintance can make this process easier. Stay accountable to yourself, but lean on this community that YOU ALL have built to hold yourselves accountable.

 

 

Casey, Manager Union Fitness

February Member of the Month: Terry Wiezorek

 

 

Congratulations to our February Member of the Month: Terry Wiezorek!

 

Terry is only a couple months shy away from her one year anniversary with us here at Union and she has worked hard to earn this title. She joined last May with the intentions of becoming a better runner but started taking classes and fell in love with our #powerful class. Now she’s a lifter extraordinaire!  Add to that list: Supermom, Yogi and Metcon Crusher.

 

She’s a star student— always willing to learn and try new things and she’s our ring leader morning class goer.  Terry is the glue that holds our classes together in the mornings, always welcoming to new members and bonds together the regulars. Everyone knows or recognizes Terry. Everyone.

 

Her hard work is continually paying off with a new PR on the board almost every few weeks, constant muscle growth and increased endurance.  As if keeping up with her busy family isn’t enough, she balances everything out with yoga sessions three times a week.

 

She’s recruited her husband to step outside his comfort zone and take some Personal Training sessions with Coach Ryan and sweat it out in the Cardio Lab classes with Coach Lindsey. The pair can often be seen downward dogging together in Jocelyn’s Friday Happy Hour Yoga class #relationshipgoals

 

 

We are so thankful to our members, like Terry, that give so much meaning to what we do everyday.  She embodies the spirit and purpose of Union Fitness.  We can’t wait to see where this journey takes her!

Mindfulness: Inside the Gym and Out

We are all, I’m sure, far too familiar with stress.  It’s a part of everyone’s daily life (yep, you too!)  From work deadlines, caring for children, dealing with school delays or trying to understand recent school shooting tragedies, and everything else ranging in between moderately annoying to completely infuriating. How can we even begin to mitigate the damaging effects of these constant stressors?

 

My personal life has become so jam packed with these icky, permeating, suffocating stressors that I’ve found myself desperately searching for some kind of relief from it. So I work out.  I feel better momentarily and then it creeps back in.  So I work out again. It works and I find some instant relief, albeit brief.  So I try again, I test out a new Cardio Lab workout and let the sweat (and maybe a little swearing) cleanse me.  By the end of the day, I’ve worked out three times and yet the weight of the stress still sits heavily on my chest.

 

I continued to run my body into the ground to avoid the black hole of emotional stress inside my brain.  Until someone reminded me that I have the most powerful tool available out there to combat stress: a mindfulness practice.

 

As a yoga teacher, you’d think I’d have this whole mindfulness thing down by now and know better when I needed to whip it out like a strong, sparkling mind/body shield. Except the thing is, I found myself only practicing mindfulness when I was inside the yoga studio.  And with a growing pregnant body, a full time job and 6 year old twin tornadoes to raise, I found myself practicing less and less. I began to feel like a fraud yoga teacher, preaching one thing in my classes while my personal life was crumbling.

 

So I’ve slowly started implementing my mindfulness practice again, one step at a time, inside the gym and out:

 

Step 1: Breathe

As lifters, we know breath is the most important aspect of any lift. Yet sometimes  we forget that it is the most important aspect of anything. I began to try to  harness the power of breath control. When I feel overwhelmed, I take deep breathes to a count of five and exhales to a count of five.  Even after just one round, I can feel the calming effects.

 

Step 2: Practice gratitude

It is so easy to let this one fall to the way side when stress feels suffocating. Inside the gym I have begun to remind myself that I am grateful for just being here. I am grateful for my health, strong muscles and resilient body. I am grateful to be surrounded by a supportive community of fellow friends and lifters.  Outside of the gym, my gratitudes are much the same. I am grateful for just being here, for beautiful, healthy children and a supportive family.  Honestly, once the list starts flowing it amazes me how never-ending it seems. For that, I am thankful.

 

Step 3: Turn off my phone

Admittedly, this one is challenging for me.  I clutch to my phone at times like it is a cherished child. Ridiculous. So, starting small, I turn off my phone during my training sessions and begin Step 4.

 

Step 4: Turn a routine task into a mindful moment

Although you can use this technique in simple daily tasks like showering or washing the dishes, I’ve been trying this with lifting sessions.  I use all my senses and try to focus on the experience. Try it yourself: How does the chalk feel on your fingers and on the barbell? How does the air around you smell? What does the bar feel like in your hands? Notice what happens to your breath, your body and your muscles before and after you complete a lift? Listen for the multitudes of sounds surrounding you.  Close your eyes, what do you see? Open your eyes, what do you see?

 

Step 5: Remember mindfulness means simply being present

When frustrations naturally set it, when the doubts all come creeping back and when the stress is angrily knocking on my door again I try to remind myself that mindfulness simply means being present.  It doesn’t need any fancy gimmicks or fancy meditation classes or any twisting contortions of yoga poses.  It can simply mean taking a moment to hug my child or a simple moment of silence.

 

 

So, yes, the stressors are still there. They are still just as jam packed and just as icky. But there is a breaking in those dark clouds now.  And yes, working out is a great way to combat stress but it is not a cure-all. In fact, in my case it was just a Band-Aid and a momentary endorphin boost.  To reap the full benefits of it, I needed to pair it with my powerful tool of mindfulness, both inside the gym and out.

Let’s Talk About Self-Care

 

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and if I’m being totally honest, it’s not my favorite holiday. So instead of writing about workouts you can do with your boyfriend or whatever, I’d like to focus on loving and caring for the most important person in your life, who you probably neglect especially around this time of year: you.

 

I want to talk about self-care today.

 

This is a topic I know that I struggle with, and from my interactions with our members, I’d guess many of you do too. I find it so easy to pour myself into helping other people – at work, at home, at school; family, friends, significant others especially. But I find it incredibly difficult to turn around and care that much about myself. I give and give until there’s nothing left, hit a breaking point where the only thing that helps me recharge is an extended vacation in some beautiful tropical country. Then come home and do it all again. In 2018 I’m trying to cut that cycle short by taking better care of myself so I can take better care of others (without the breakdown). I’ve learned a few things about self-love and self-care so far this year that I’d like to share:

 

What self-care ISN’T

 

When I started this self-care project, I did what every millenial does best and read a million lists on a million clickbaity websites. “Take a hot bath, light a candle, have a spa day, eat some comfort food, buy a whole new wardrobe, go broke at Sephora, drink a glass of wine in front of the fireplace you don’t have and reflect on your beautiful life,” etc. These things are all great if you enjoy them (I unapologetically do), and they can be a form of self-care, but let’s be honest: this is some surface level stuff.

 

It’s EASY to sit in the tub with some candles and drink wine and tell yourself that this right here is the thing that’s going to fix the stress and make everything okay again. It certainly feels good in the moment. But when it’s all done and you’re still laying in bed at night unable to sleep and you don’t know why, I think it’s safe to say that your self-care practice wasn’t really cutting it.

 

What self-care IS

 

No one likes to hear it, but this is the truth: self-care is WORK. Buying new shoes isn’t getting at my real problems – especially if my real problems include paying off my student loans (they do) and better managing my money. I might get some instant gratification out of a new purchase, but that wears off and then I’m back to square one, just with even less money.

 

In a lot of ways, self-care means putting your current whims and wants on hold to focus on the bigger picture. Yes, maybe eating a tub of ice cream would feel awesome right now, and in some circles that would even count as self-care. But if what you really want for yourself is to be a faster runner, is that what you actually need?

 

This version of self-care feels to me more like a parenting relationship than the enabling best friend one I found in those self-care lists. It’s weird to be both the parent and the kid in this relationship, but just roll with it: would I let my kid sleep in and skip class all the time because they didn’t feel up to it that day? Of course not. Care about your future self as much as you care about your hypothetical (or real) child.

 

So here’s my self-care listicle. It’s not as fun as lying in a meadow surrounded by butterflies or whatever, but it’s definitely been more effective than the other things I’ve tried:

 

  • Pay your bills on time. Open that mail even if it makes you anxious. The sooner you get it out of the way, the better you’ll feel.
  • Make those doctor’s appointments you’ve been avoiding.
  • Eat enough food. Make it nutritious. You know what that means.
  • Make smart choices while you’re still at the grocery store. Avoiding ice cream once is easier than avoiding it every day after it’s already in your freezer.
  • Have those hard conversations. Be honest about your feelings. No one can address how you feel if they don’t know.
  • Cardio Lab hurts when it’s happening but clears your head after.
  • Go after your goals. No one can do that for you. Get that first pull-up or a 400lb deadlift. You have to put in the work and that is within your control.
  • Hate your job? Start looking for new ones.
  • Get yourself on a budget. If you don’t know where your money is going, you can’t really save anything can you?
  • Ask for help. A lot of this you can do alone, but not all of it. Lean on the people that love you. They want to be there for you.

 

This kind of self-care is hard. I’m still working on it everyday. Tackling some of the more serious issues in my life is draining and often terrifying, but I know that I’m going to come out on the other side a happier person. And for now, I’m lucky to be surrounded by people that are willing and want to help me get there. I hope you can do the same and consider loving yourself first this Valentine’s Day.

Movement Screening with Mike Allen

This Monday evening we are excited to welcome Mike Allen, DPT, to Union Fitness. He’ll be offering free functional movement screenings for all members, and we encourage every one of you to take him up on this offer, whether you’re currently experiencing aches and pains, or feel healthy as can be.

 

Mike is the President of Precision Physical Therapy and Performance in the North Hills. He’s an excellent physical therapist with over 11 years of clinical experience. He attended Slippery Rock University for both his undergraduate and graduate degrees, finishing  his Bachelor of Science in Exercise Science in 2003, and his Doctorate of Physical Therapy in 2006.  His post-graduate work includes studies in spinal manipulation through the Spinal Manipulation Institute, Selective Functional Movement Assessment through Functional Movement Systems, and soft tissue treatment through the Institute for Physical Art. He’s also a lifelong athlete: he has played baseball, basketball, competed as a power lifter, and currently practices Brazilian jiu-jitsu. So you know that his advice doesn’t come down to “stop doing the things you love to do.”

 

Why should you get a functional movement screening (FMS)? If you’ve ever experienced low back, shoulder, or hip pain, you probably already know the answer. If not, the key is injury prevention. Mike will assess your movement joint-by-joint, looking for faulty movement patterns that may be putting you at risk of injury. Fixing these fundamental issues will make your day-to-day life more pain-free, AND you’ll find yourself moving more efficiently during your workouts. Can’t go wrong there!

 

Mike will be in house from 4-8pm on Monday, February 5th. We hope to see you all there!